I was a user on this wiki years ago, and recently returned. I was so sad and disappointed to find Daughter of Ashes and Air deleted. Is it published anoywhere else on the internet? I know you're inactive and I've left a message before, but Ireally miss it. I thought it was a good fanon.
P.S. I know how you feel if you thought no one liked it. Every time I tried to publish a fanon, I felt like no one read it, or cared or would help me.
Sorry to butt in ^^", but Tech, I agree with TAD here. An engagement does not constitute anything like a family bond. I it incorrect to say that it does and does not warrant to go through the trouble of making an engagement parameter. People can be engaged their entire life, but they will only constitute a legal bond, a family bond, the moment they actually say "I do". An engagement on itself means nothing. It's just a promise between two people, no legal consequences are attached to that (though you can sue the other person for moral damages when they leave you at the alter but that still does not mean you were once family).
To be in harmony with all the rest though it is indeed not entirely correct when it comes to those two, that is, Ummi should not be under Kuruk's relatives, and Kuruk shouldn't be under Ummi. They should be removed.